I teach a newborn care class and
one of things I always say is, "This is your baby." I
want parents to know that they can and should advocate for themselves and
their child. This starts in the hospital: Do you want rooming-in? Are you
wondering why your baby is being given a bottle? Would you like to help
give your baby her first bath? Parents often tell me they feel like they
have no control over what is happening to their baby (and to Mom) in the hospital,
and that this is scary and confusing. The hospital staff has mother and baby's
best interests in mind, but they do this every day, and may not be
thinking about the
bewilderment of new parents. Feel free to ask questions, get
involved in your baby's newborn care, and express any concerns you might
have. Nurses and doctors appreciate direct communication and everyone will
be happier if expectations are understood. Most of all, know that this is your
baby and you are her parent, advocate, and caregiver - you can do this!
